All of man’s difficulties are caused by his inability to sit, quietly, in a room by himself. – Blaise Pascal
If you want to read the story of my first meditation retreat, start here.
- Choose a time to meditate each day. Meditating after waking up is easiest for most people.
- Find a quiet place where you’ll be undisturbed for five minutes.
- Sit in a chair that allows you to sit upright with back support.
- Set a timer for for one minute to start.
- Close your eyes and feel the connection of your feet to the ground and your hands on your legs.
- Take a few deep breaths to start. Focus your attention on each breath.
- Acknowledge when you’re distracted which you should expect to happen often.
- Instead of judging yourself for getting distracted, just focus on the next breath.
- Breath normally focusing on each inhale and exhale until time expires.
- Afterwards, take a moment to notice how you feel.
- Maybe you’re tired. Maybe you struggled. That’s normal.
- Maybe you’re calmer or clearer for the rest of your day.
- Gratitude – “What are 3 things you’re grateful for today?”
- Daily Visualization – “What is one thing I want to accomplish today?”
- Strength – “Who from my past or present believes deeply in me?”
- Close your eyes.
- Count each breath until you reach a count of ten.
- Open your eyes and be proud of getting started.
- Notice how you feel.
- Headspace – If you want a free, audio guide with a cool British accent and funny animations, download Headspace. The initial free meditations are ten minutes, but you can always turn it off sooner.
- BrainPickings The Power Paradox – If you can’t find time to meditate or want to increase your power, read this article starting with the paragraph with the “Good Samaritan study”. The greatest predictor of unkind behavior is a perceived lack of time. You can take control of your perception with meditation.
You should sit in meditation for twenty minutes a day, unless you are too busy — then you should sit for an hour. – Unknown